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Harriet Lerner Quotes - Page 3

Feeling inadequate is an occupational hazard of motherhood.

"Life preservers: staying afloat in love and life". Book by Harriet Goldhor Lerner, 1996.

It is an act of courage to acknowledge our own uncertainty and sit with it for a while.

Harriet Goldhor Lerner (1986). “The dance of anger: a woman's guide to changing the patterns of intimate relationships”, HarperCollins Publishers

The strongest relationships are between two people who can live without each other but don't want to.

Harriet Lerner (2012). “Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up”, p.169, Penguin

Telling a true story about personal experience is not just a matter of being oneself, or even or finding oneself. It is also a matter of choosing oneself.

Harriet Goldhor Lerner (1993). “The Dance of Deception: Pretending and Truth-Telling in Women's Lives”, Harpercollins

Although the connections are not always obvious, personal change is inseparable from social and political change.

Harriet Goldhor Lerner (1996). “Life Preservers: Staying Afloat in Love and Life”, HarperCollins Publishers

As many have observed, it is easy to tell a lie, but it is almost impossible to tell only one.

Harriet Lerner (2009). “The Dance of Deception: Pretending and Truth-Telling in Women's”, p.35, Harper Collins

Intensity is not the same as intimacy, although we tend to confuse these two words.

Harriet Lerner (2009). “Life Preservers: Staying Afloat in Love and Life”, p.12, Harper Collins

Being in touch with our bodies, or more accurately, being our bodies, is how we know what is true. Harriet

Harriet Goldhor Lerner (1993). “The Dance of Deception: Pretending and Truth-Telling in Women's Lives”, Harpercollins