You are always a winner. Sometimes you win, sometimes you make others win.
Even if you win in ego it is a loss. Even if you lose in love it is a victory.
If you can win over your mind, you can win over the whole world.
A game is where you win and lose, and both are part of it. When there is more chance of losing, it is more charming. The game has value when it is tough. So some little problems that come in life are part of the whole game.