Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.
I will grow. I will become something new and grand, but no grander than I now am. Just as the sky will be different in a few hours, its present perfection and completeness is not deficient, so am I presently perfect and not deficient. I will be different tomorrow. I will grow and I am not deficient.