Don't choose. Accept life as it is in its totality.
But there is a world of difference between dancing and watching a dance performed by a group of professionals who are paid for it. You work hard during the day, and when you are tired in the evening you go to a concert to watch others dancing. It is all you can do, but it is not even an apology for celebration.
Fill your heart with the creative power to accept the past, decorate the present and transform the future.