Lacking an external focus, the mind turns inward on itself and creates problems to solve, even if the problems are undefined or unimportant. If you find a focus, an ambitious goal that seems impossible and forces you to grow, these doubts disappear.
Poisonous people do not deserve your time. To think otherwise is masochistic.
Reality is negotiable.
The fishing is best where the fewest go. There is just less competition for bigger goals.
Slow down and remember this: Most things make no difference.
If you don't have time, you don't have priorities.
Being busy is a form of laziness - lazy thinking and indiscriminate action. Being busy is most often used as a guise for avoiding the few critically important but uncomfortable actions.
Believe it or not, it is not only possible to accomplish more by doing less, it is mandatory. Enter the world of elimination.
Luxury is feeling unrushed. It is designing a life that allows you to do what you want with high leverage, with many options, all while feeling unrushed.
Most people are good at a handful of things and utterly miserable at most.
An entrepreneur isn't someone who owns a business, it's someone who makes things happen.
For all of the most important things, the timing always sucks. Waiting for a good time to quit your job? The stars will never align and the traffic lights of life will never all be green at the same time. The universe doesn't conspire against you, but it doesn't go out of its way to line up the pins either. Conditions are never perfect. "Someday" is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. Pro and con lists are just as bad. If it's important to you and you want to do it "eventually," just do it and correct course along the way.
I'll repeat something you might consider tattooing on your forehead: What we fear doing most is usually what we most need to do.
Being selective-doing less-is the path of the productive. Focus on the important few and ignore the rest.
What do you want?' is too imprecise to produce a meaningful and actionable answer.
When you try to do something big its hard to fail completely.
Which 20% of sources are causing 80% of my problems and unhappiness? Which 20% of sources are resulting in 80% of my desired outcomes and happiness?
At least three time per day at scheduled times, he had to ask himself the following question: Am I being productive or just active? Charney captured the essence of this with less-abstract wording: Am I inventing things to do to avoid the important? He eliminated all of the activities he used as crutches and began to focus on demonstrating results instead of showing dedication. Dedication is often just meaningless work in disguise. Be ruthless and cut the fat.
Role models who push us to exceed our limits, physical training that removes our spare tires, and risks that expand our sphere of comfortable action are all examples of eustress—stress that is healthful and the stimulus for growth.
Uncertainty and the prospect of failure can be very scary noises in the shadows. Most people will choose unhappiness over uncertainty.
There is always more information than attention
Creating demand is hard. Filling demand is easier. Don't create a product, then seek someone to sell it to. Find a market - define your customers - then find or develop a product for them.
Slowing down doesn't mean accomplishing less; it means cutting out counterproductive distractions and the perception of being rushed.
Age doesn't matter. An open mind does.
Learn to ask, "If this is the only thing I accomplish today, will I be satisfied with my day?"